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10 Questions to Ask Yourself
Before You Accept Any Diagnosis

Ten questions to help you think clearly when everything feels overwhelming. Written in plain language, for patients and the people who love them.


A year and a half ago I sat at my kitchen table with a stack of my husband’s medical records and found something I could not unsee. Everything that mattered was already recorded in his file. Neither of us had read it.

I’d spent forty years reading complicated documents for a living — legal files, contracts, procurement records. Finding what doesn’t add up has always been the job. I never thought I’d need that skill for someone I love.

These are the ten questions I wish someone had handed me that day. They’re yours, free.

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What’s inside

Ten clear questions to sit with before you accept any diagnosis — the ones that help you slow down, think clearly, and know what to ask. No medical degree required. Nothing to buy.

You’ll also get occasional notes from me on reading your records, preparing for appointments, and advocating for yourself or someone you love. Unsubscribe any time — no hard feelings.

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Educational information only. Not medical or legal advice.